Things in nature have their own laws of existence, and there are also rules that should be followed between cosmic physics and human beings.The Doctrine of the Mean says: "The destiny of heaven is called nature, the destiny of nature is called Tao, and the practice of Tao is called teaching.The most important thing in life is to do a good job. To be able to do things perfectly, there are also rules that should be followed. Let me give you four points first:
1、Increase strength from patience
Being a human being requires strength, just like a hero with a sword and a sword, to appear heroic and powerful.
《The Sutra of Agama says: "Children use crying as their power, women use charm as their power, monks use endurance as their power, kings use power as their power, arhats use less desire as their power, and Bodhisattvas use compassion as their power.
If you have great strength, you can take it with it strongly.Patience is the greatest power in the world. To endure hardships, humiliation, and suffering, tolerate distress, tolerate adverse conditions, and tolerate good things in good times, so as not to be complacent.
If you endure everything, it will become a force that beautifies the world.
2、Follow the cause and condition from the understanding of truth
If it is in line with nature, it is in line with cause and effect, cause and effect, destiny, and laws of nature.You must be wise and follow the causes and conditions. You cannot act against the will of heaven. Everything that is not in line with the causes and conditions will not succeed even if you do it.It is like a river, knowing how to avoid obstacles, so it can flow continuously;Only by knowing how to follow the causes and conditions can you go all the best.
In addition, daily money should be used within one's means and emotional handling should be appropriate.If you understand everything, you need many causes and conditions to achieve success and know how to adapt to nature, you will be able to achieve success and succeed smoothly.
3、From the heart of one's heart
Everyone must make a wish so that they will have goals in life.Amitabha Buddha made forty-eight wishes to achieve the Pure Land;Medicine Buddha made the twelve great vows to achieve the Eastern glazed world;Bodhisattvas have the four immeasurable minds of compassion, joy and giving, and vow to practice the six perfections and ten thousand practices to save sentient beings, so that they can complete the Buddha's path.If you can be determined to endure hardships, work hard, serve and contribute, and do whatever you do, then the greater the result will be.
4、Say good from gratitude
Some people always think that they lack this and that one, how good it would be to have all of them!In fact, gratitude is the greatest wealth. I am grateful for others to treat me well, for the well-connected transportation and material things... and even the trees, flowers and plants on both sides of the road. Although I don’t know which person planted it, it is not worthy of giving everyone a glimpse of the cool air and beautifying the world?
If you can be grateful and praise for all these things, it is the best life.Many people often sigh: "It is difficult to be a human being, it is difficult to be a human being, and it is difficult to be a human being.
Is it really so difficult to be a person or a person?It may not be true. If everything is for oneself, it will be difficult to deal with things and it will be difficult to be a human being;If you know how to look for yourself, why worry about not being able to do your job perfectly?
How to be a person and deal with things?The next four rules are:
5、Harmony through communication
Everything must be harmonious and uncontested, and communication and exchange are the key points.If you are obsessed with your own opinions, it is easy to cause misunderstandings and differences.Such as the disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the generation gap between parent-child, and the inseparable relationship between relatives and neighbors, are all due to the inability to communicate in terms of concepts.
In this regard, Buddhism teaches disciples to communicate and get along with others according to the "four methods of giving, loving words, benefiting behavior, and colleagues, and thus create an "six-harmony environment and state of mind.
In short, the interpersonal relationship should be harmonious and harmonious, "Communication is a compulsory topic.
6、Dedicate yourself from participation
We cannot live alone. As the saying goes, "Three people make a crowd," and "one tree can't make a forest. Everyone must live in the masses and seek a symbiotic life.
For example, participating in a football match requires every player to devote himself and unite to win.
The same is true for being a person and dealing with things. Only by participating in the public and integrating into the group can one achieve one's own self.Dedicate your body and mind from participation and live with the concept of "the public is the first and the second, and you will not do anything.
7、Collective creation from harmony
Today's society emphasizes collective creation and team spirit.
A person stands out and has limited achievements;Only by gathering the power and wisdom of the masses can we create extraordinary results.As the saying goes, “Three cobblers are better than one Zhuge Liang.
Buddhism also says that “all fates are in harmony, flowers, plants and trees need sunshine, air, and water to mature;A product requires materials, machines, and manpower to complete it;A drama needs a director, screenwriter, and actor before it can start acting.
Therefore, people should not only integrate, but also cooperate with each other in order to achieve great things together.
8、Enjoy yourself from identity
Self-affirmation is important, but being recognized by others, and self-enjoyment through recognition is even more necessary.On the contrary, if you cannot gain the recognition of others and are purely self-appreciated, you will lack a sense of accomplishment.
In addition, if you want to be recognized by others, you must first learn to identify with others, and know how to be mutually inclusive, respectful, caring for each other, and exchange positions. This is the true symbiosis of the same body.
There are many different things in the world, especially the most complicated response to human affairs. However, among the many things, you can still figure out some rules for being a person and dealing with things.Master the “laws” and life will be free and easy.
“Four suggestions on the rules of life and affairs:
9、Friendship and respect from humility
Be humble and kind when dealing with others;You must be vigilant when doing things and be harmonious when dealing with people.
French thinker Rousseau said: "Great people will never abuse their merits, they see that they surpass others, and realize that, but they will never be unhumble because of this.The more they have, the more they recognize their shortcomings.
Therefore, even if a person has the advantage of intelligence, intelligence, financial ability, etc., he must be humble and ashamed that he still has something to do with ignorance and inability. In this way, he will respect you with friendship and respect.
10、Discovering oneself from faith
People should have faith, such as belief in their own personality, belief in morality, belief in principles, and even belief in certain ideology, belief in academic thoughts, belief in religion, etc.
No matter what your belief is, you must be able to establish correct knowledge and views;No matter what your belief is, you must be able to discover yourself, the dignity in your nature, the treasure in your nature, and the wisdom of Prajna in your nature.
11、Prosper and strive from peace
"Harmony is the most important thing in everything in the world. The so-called "harmony does not mean doing nothing all day long, wandering all day long, and being indifferent to the world.
“and have positive meaning;People should base themselves on "peace and then strive for progress from peace, so that what they do will not go against their conscience, nor will they be disturbed by right and wrong.
12、From dignity and respect
Buddhism says "Three thousand majestic etiquette and eighty thousand meticulous practices. Majestic etiquette not only can capture the body and mind of the practitioner, but also a silent practice. However, only by focusing on inner cultivation can one permanently have a solemn image.
If you have dignity and every move is a manifestation of wisdom, you will naturally be respected by everyone.
