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Be your own master

Chinese Master 2013-08-18

Original excerpt from: "Hanshan Temple" 2011 Issue 3 Author: Yuanyuan

《Five Lantern Festival •"Zen Master Ruiyan" records: Living in Ruiyan, Danqiu, sitting on the rock, you will be as stupid as you will be in a day.Every time he calls himself: “Master!"Reply: "Promise".Then he said, "I am so conscious, and don't be abused by others afterwards."”

In the case, Monk Ruiyan called for the "master" every day, hoping that he could always stay awake and not be lost by external circumstances.

This Zen purpose is placed in life and has a very profound philosophical rationality, that is, no matter whether we are in a state of success or frustration in life, we should not lose our true nature, so that we can have our own position and direction of life.If you lose yourself, you will easily be burdened by external things, becoming passive and troubled.

Su Che, known as "Xiao Su", once concluded in his prose "Huangzhou Kuaizai Pavilion": "A scholar was born in the world, so that he could be calm and not hurt his nature with things. How could he be more suitable than fast?"Expressed that he did not regard personal gains and losses as his own, and believed that as long as he was calm and open-minded, he would have a happy life.

Indeed, as long as a person is calm and contented in his heart, not harmed by fame and fortune, and is not bound by external things, he can always maintain peace and tranquility in his heart.Just imagine, if a person is in a bad mood, no matter where he goes, he will be worried and lack happiness. If he is open and honest, no matter how the objective environment changes, he can be his own master and will not be influenced by external things, and his spiritual realm is also open and open.

But it is often difficult to make decisions by yourself.Modern people usually have two common problems: one is that when they are in a happy spring, they think they are great, and they are complacent because they can summon the wind and rain and turn the world;The other type is to complain, curse or even give up easily when encountering unsatisfactory situations.Both of these problems will cause you to lose yourself and be your own master.

In the book "The White Congee House to Avoid Anger", there is an article called "The Putting Up of the Donor of Qu", which contains this paragraph:

The second time that Qu Shi came to the temple was last spring. I felt that Qu Shi was much silent this time, as if he was worried.

He sat in front of Master Zhiyuan, and the master asked him to express his confusion. Donor Qu said that he was a director, but not a very famous director. He always wanted to direct a good movie. He suddenly had the opportunity to direct a movie a year ago, and there were two. After weighing it over and over again, he chose the partner he agreed to at first. The other party was a female doctor and looked good.

Although Donor Qu refused another well-known producer's investment opportunity, he felt that his choice was correct. Although there are many people in this world who forget their righteousness, there are always people who will stick to their principles.

However, things changed a little. When the female doctor signed the contract, she suddenly said that she forgot to bring the official seal. After a few days, when the donor Qu urged the other party to sign the contract, the other party stopped answering the phone and asked someone to inquire. It turned out that the female doctor had signed the contract with someone else.

The long-standing wish suddenly failed, and another rare opportunity was missed. During that period, the donor Qu was very depressed. Sometimes he was drunk and called the female doctor when he got too much, and scolded the other person on the phone. Sometimes he didn't answer, and he didn't speak even if he answered.

Donor Qu asked Master Zhiyuan, should we adhere to the principles?I would like to ask if good people are really rewarded?

Master Zhiyuan said to Donor Qu, since some things cannot be changed, it is better to let go.

Donor Qu said to Master Zhiyuan, I tried to let go, but I could never do it.

Master Zhiyuan led Donor Qu to the outside of the house, pointed to the top of Maoshan and said to Donor Qu, "If you walk to the top of the mountain, your confusion will be solved."

The donor Qu stepped towards the top of the mountain, and Master Zhiyuan stopped him again, pointed to the incense burner in the temple and said to the donor Qu, "Take it with you."

The incense burner was very big and was placed in the middle of the temple all year round. Few people moved it. The donor was stunned and stood in front of the incense burner and pushed it hard. The incense burner just moved gently, and it was almost impossible to move it up the mountain.Donor Qu wanted to give up but was not convinced. He persisted for a while and finally gave up.

Master Zhiyuan smiled and said to the donor Qu, "In fact, your goal is to reach the top of the mountain, and it is okay not to bring this incense burner."

That afternoon, Donor Qu stood in front of the incense burner for a long time, finally sighed with a smile, took out his cell phone and sent a text message, turned around and said goodbye to us and left the mountain.

A few days ago, Jie Chi met the donor Qu again. This time he was wearing a hat. Jie Chi didn't know if there was too much hair under the hat, but it could be seen that the donor Qu was in a good mood. The person he accompanied told Jie Chi that the donor Qu won a very important award not long ago, and the donor Qu also looked at Jie Chi and smiled proudly.

Abstinence couldn't help but ask Donor Qu, what did he do on his phone at that time?

Donor Qu told Jiebian, and he sent a text message to the female doctor and deleted her mobile phone number. Donor Qu told her, "I don't hate you anymore because my goal is to reach the top of the mountain.”

There are always things that are more important than hatred in life.

Donor Qu really doesn’t care about the female donor who deceived him?It is not entirely true to avoid anger, because I heard him talking loudly about the past with his friends, but his expression was as relaxed as if he was telling a joke.

At the end of the story, you can comment on Buddhism’s “to go with the flow” or “let go”, but I think this is the best proof of “using me to change things, you can be your own master.”Before things, people usually forget themselves, and their body and mind are always turned by things, just like puppets manipulated by people with threads. Every move is at the mercy of others, and they can't help themselves laughing, anger and scolding.

The donor in the article did his true nature before he met the female doctor, but because of the female doctor's breach of trust, he felt that he was deceived. At this time, the hurt emotions and resentment began to influence his thoughts. He could not be happy and had a lot of worries.This pain has become an invisible line that manipulates his life. He is pulled and controlled, feeling depressed, numbing himself with alcohol, scolding the female doctor on the phone... This is definitely not the life he wants, but he can't extricate himself for a while, so he lives in the shadow of pain every day.When Master Zhiyuan said with a word and said, "Your goal is to reach the top of the mountain", Donor Qu suddenly realized, swung his sword and cut off the lines that tied him, found what he should do now, and found himself again.

How can we get rid of the situation of "using things to turn me"?There is only one way out, which is "using me to transform things".

“To transform things with me means to use "I" to transform external things, to free yourself from being enslaved by external things, and to control external things.

《Caigentan says: "If I change things, I will not be happy with gains, nor will I worry about losing them. The world will be free and free;Those who use things to deal with me will be disliked and hateful, and those who obey will also be loved, and a hair will become entangled."The general meaning is that for those who turn things around, there is no need to be happy if they get it, and there is no need to be sad if they lose it. The heaven and earth can be free and free everywhere;Those who enslave me with things will certainly develop hatred when things are in the opposite situation, but also develop love when things are in the good times, and a hair will cause trouble.It’s like if you are enslaved by a house, you become a “house slave”;If you are enslaved by fame and fortune, you will become an "official slave".Only when you change your mindset and "change things with me" can you be free from the role of house slaves and official slaves, and you will live a comfortable life no matter the size of the house;Whether you have or not, you will live freely.This is also the Zen proposition: transcend the external world with many different voices and colors, and maintain the tranquility and freedom of the soul in the rolling world.

The reason why a person's life is endless pain is that we have too many desires. We are led by external things, joy, sorrow, pain... and cannot be the true self due to external influences.Therefore, Zen Master Huineng, the Sixth Patriarch, made a warning saying "The mind is confused and the Lotus Sutra is transformed, and the mind is enlightened and the Lotus Sutra is transformed."

With me as the center, everything is used by me. If you lose something, you can take another thing. If you fail, you can create another thing. You can make a difference in the sky and be carefree.On the contrary, to work hard for all things, one becomes a slave to wealth and fame.In adversity, hate and fear in your heart;When you are in good times, you will forget your sorrow because of love.Extremely small things can bind the body and mind and become the root of pain. It can be seen that confusion and enlightenment, suffering and happiness are all between the thought of servicing things and the thought of servicing things.If you don’t realize it, you will be a slave to things for life. If you understand it, you will have an inexhaustible treasure. No matter whether you gain or lose, you should be unmoved, free and easy, and become your own master.

2024-02-05 18:04
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