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Learn to be kind to yourself and others

Master Longxiang 2021-05-01

I think the following are important in learning to be kind to yourself and others.

First, people need to recognize what they really need.For example, people eat a good meal, but end up having trouble with their stomachs and happiness becomes pain.For example, in order to pass the time, people surf the Internet all night, but staying up late makes their health problems.For example, when you go to tourist attractions, blindly follow the trend of group buying, buy a lot of unnecessary things, etc., treating yourself kindly becomes treating yourself badly.Therefore, you have to ask yourself repeatedly, is this really necessary?Do you treat yourself kindly in this way?

Second, learn to compare.Once upon a time, someone rode a donkey and saw that he was riding a horse and surpassing him, he was very unhappy.As a result, when I looked back, there were still many hiking people on foot and I felt comforted again.Therefore, people should be good at comparison. For example, students do not necessarily have to strive for first place every time. It is painful to always stay first. Putting too much pressure on yourself is not to treat yourself kindly.

Third, have a wise attitude towards life.This requires making good use of the wisdom and principles of Buddhism. For example, three people get rare peanut seeds at the same time, and the first type of people eat it immediately.The second type of person picks up the peanut seeds and tastes it. It tastes good, so he eats half of it and leaves the remaining half as seeds.The third type of person shares peanut seeds with friends. In the harvest season next year, friends use the harvested seeds as gratitude and rewards. They not only harvest happiness but also harvest fruits.

People should be good at using the wisdom of Buddhism to release their worries, and do not bear the burden. They should not only treat themselves well for a while, but also treat themselves well for a lifetime and for generations.Therefore, you cannot just focus on the present moment, but think about the long-term. It is like the seeds of peanuts. You must learn to share and treat others well in order to gain more. That is to treat yourself better.

2024-02-05 18:03
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