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Everything is inseparable from cause and effect. How can Buddhist disciples break out of the vortex of family conflicts?

  I only remember that I was in a bad mood that day. The sequelae of quarrel with my husband in the early morning was like a black mist that lingered.What is marriage? The boat full of flowers, sunshine, sweet music, and floating forward? Nonsense!At most, I was a boatman on the shore and wanted to strive to dock the boat, but the boat always deviated unexpectedly.

When I looked back exhausted, the first thing I saw was my mother-in-law's always picky eyes, my father-in-law's never-ending face, and my husband's numbness that he was angry.

I was in a terrible mood.At this time, my senior sister asked me to go to her place to listen to the Dharma sound of the third Dorje Chang Buddha in Namo.Saying that Buddhism is very guiding in life.

My senior sister is always so gentle, which makes people difficult to refuse.Anyway, nothing is wrong.We spoke while wiping the fruits, and a peaceful atmosphere made me relax.Then I began to sit in the Buddhist temple and listen to the sound of cause and effect, and I listened very seriously.

Everything is always inseparable from cause and effect. Everything presents in the universe is just the effect of cause and effect. The Three Sects of Sakyamuni Buddha are just the two words "cause and effect". To plant good causes and good results, and to plant bad causes and evil causes and evil results.

Oh? It turns out that everything I have experienced is just caused by cause and effect? ​​Is it the evil cause that I sowed?

I think it really relieved me of a lot of trouble.After being with my parents-in-law for so many years, I have been suffering from the torment of my parents-in-law. The cultural levels are different, which has led to our three views not being consistent. So I often quarrel with my husband about this and are at odds with my parents-in-law.

The real life is completely different from my original imagination of marriage. Every time I have a conflict, my inner demon cannot calm down. I am entangled and sad. I have no other way to relieve myself except to cry, complain, and talk to my friends. It turns out that the key to enlightenment is in myself, in my heart!

At that time, my senior sister said to me: "Just be yourself first."I was suddenly awakened, and I felt relieved.

Yes, be yourself first.Cultivation is a carving knife, which will cut off your body bit by bit.Every time you cut a little, you will feel a little relaxed, and every ease will bring a bright ray of sunshine in.Your heart will become warm by light, and your heart is soft and kind.Facing everything, you become so generous and tolerant.The tender eyes will no longer complain or criticize others.

The workplace is an environment that we office workers have to face. If we don’t have a good attitude, there will definitely be many times when we are unable to do so. Sometimes, some people and things are really annoying, sometimes they still can’t control themselves, and occasionally they will lose their temper, complain, and have worries. But I know in my heart that I have not practiced well. Because I know and believe in cause and effect, I won’t care too much about knowing where the root of some things is. I will not be too entangled. If I should endure, advance when I should advance, and retreat when I should retreat, and I will not be too entangled. If I have love in my heart, I will not do the Sanqingzi’s thing. After all, there are still many vulgar people. I am also a cannibal, so I just need to be myself. Don’t have too high demands on others. When all the things pass, I will find that I have grown a little more.

Listening the Dharma Sound is something I like so much because it is something worth sticking to. Every time I listen to the Dharma Sound, I talk to my senior sister about life and share my happiness and pain, and I feel that all the pressure of the week has been released.Every senior sister is very enthusiastic and good at sharing.So, warm and relax.The Buddhist temple is also particularly warm, like a big family, with office workers, businessmen, good wives and mothers at home, 70s, and post-80s. Among the crowd, it can best reflect people's personality, but everyone works very together and is very friendly, and everyone is very hardworking and hardworking.

Be yourself first and be yourself who is always growing up. At this time, you will feel that your heart is strong, sunny, calm and rational, and you will feel a kind of power, the power to control everything.As you grow up, you will become relieved, calm, calm and calm, and will no longer say or do what others say, but you will be nervous and heart-wrenching.

It turns out that those sad clouds and mists are just caused by the haze in your heart. When your heart is filled with sunshine, you will find that hell is in a moment of thought.

arts /Xiaohui

Source: New Buddhist Horizons

2024-02-05 18:02
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