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Master Hsing Yun: How to meet good friends and bad friends

Master Nebula 2023-08-22

Everyone in the world needs friends.Friends have so-called good friends and bad friends.What is a good friend and what is a bad friend?In Buddhist scriptures, friends have four levels of friends, which are four types of friends:

1. Friends are like flowers: Some friends are like flowers. When you are in full bloom, they put you on their heads and offer them to the table;If you wither, he will throw you away.In other words, when you have power and wealth, he will praise you high and flatter you in everything.Followyou;Once your fame and fortune are gone and your value of use is lost, he will betray you and leave you. This is a friend who despises the poor and loves the rich.

2. Friends are like scales: Some friends are like scales.If you are heavier than him, he bows his head;If you are lighter than him, he will get taller.In other words, when you have a way, a reputation, and a power, he will bow down to you in a humble manner;When your fame and power are gone, he will hold his head up and look down on you.

The above two are bad friends, and there are two other good friends:

3. Friends are like mountains: Some friends are like mountains. The mountains can plant forests, raise all birds and animals, and let the animals gather in it and live freely.So good friends are like mountains and have a broad mind. Just like Mengchangjun, they have three thousand diners, and can accommodate many friends.

4. Friends are like the earth: There is a kind of friend like the earth, the earth can carry all things. We build houses on the earth, plant flowers, plants, and even people and cars walk on it, the earth bears it without any complaints.Therefore, friends like the earth can carry us, take responsibility for us, and serve us. These two kinds of friends who are as good as mountains and earth are good friends.

So, how do you get to know good friends and bad friends?

1. Friendship is like a flower.

2. Friendship is like a scale.

3. Friends are like mountains.

4. Friendship is like the earth. 

2024-02-05 18:02
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