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Kakuma (Only )Master: How to pay attention to the way and content of your speaking?

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How to pay attention to the way and content of your speaking?

Someone asked: "If the other party's level and level are different from oneself, how can we communicate with the other party?How to pay attention to yourself - the way and content of your speech?"We have told you that the development and practice of "oral practice" is very important. As long as you grasp the points to practice and pay attention to it, you can practice the oral virtue and practice well, and will transform the original oral practice that creates oral karma. We are all practicing the oral virtue to make good connections with sentient beings.

「If the other party’s level and realm are different from oneself, how can we communicate with the other party?"This adheres to a principle, starting from compassion and love.For example, if you think you are a college student and the other party is in kindergarten, please do not treat him with a despise heart, and do not think that "I am a college student, I have high academic knowledge and high education;You are a kindergarten and don’t know anything…” If this is the case, the higher your knowledge and education, the greater your arrogance will become, and the reduction of the pain in the world will increase instead of reducing.

Therefore, don’t really look down on sentient beings. If you think that their level is lower than ours for all sentient beings, first of all, we often have some false distinctions, some arrogance in them, and think that our level is higher than others, so we need to be aware of these.If you can realize it, you will treat all living beings with an equal mind;When you treat all living beings with equality, compassion will naturally be revealed.

If you think that your state is higher than others, and your state is very poor and smaller than me, in this way, there are subtle looking down on others in our mentality, even if you say you want to be good to others, there is still arrogance in it, that is, your compassion for others becomes defiled and not pure.Therefore, with a full and important mentality, we must see that there are subtle and unequal hearts in our own hearts.If you can see this level and adjust it, I am equal to all sentient beings. If this sentient being needs my help, I have the ability and I can help, I will help, and start from compassion.

If he needs my help, but what he wants, I think it will not help him in his growth. At this time, we will clearly tell him: I can't help.Or what he needs, we lack, we don’t have the ability, and we tell the other party truthfully: I don’t have it.Therefore, starting from compassion, we can usually help sentient beings and help sentient beings to feedback these sentient beings.

(Summary of the questions and answers by Master Kooka, compiled by the students' text )

2024-02-05 18:10
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