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10 Famous Family Words by the Ancients

Other articles 2021-04-17

The main word for family management is to manage peace.

This is a sentence from Qian Yong, a scholar in the Qing Dynasty, in "Luyuan Cong Talks about Family Management".

Heine has a famous saying: I would rather use a small cup of truth, goodness and beauty to organize a happy family than use a few large ships of furniture to organize a boring family.

Harmony is the ultimate destination of the family and the ultimate goal of family members' efforts.It doesn’t matter how much money it costs. It’s hard to find a happy and happy family life.

If the family has one mind, you have money to buy gold;I have two hearts at home and have no money to buy needles.

This sentence comes from the mouth of Xu Wei, a talented man in the Ming Dynasty.

Xu Wei, who was born in illegitimately, lacked the love of his parents since childhood and was separated from his biological mother at the age of ten.Although I live in my own home, I often feel like I am living under someone else’s roof.

Because of this, Xu Wei has his own views and insights about the family.

A happy family always thinks in the same direction and works in the same direction.A family is like a small society. Only when one is united can one make a profit and lose money.

If you are abstaining from disputes at home, the lawsuit will end up being in danger;Be careful of talking too much, and speaking too much will lead to mistakes.

"The Family Instructions of Zhu Zi" from Zhu Bolu.

No matter how good the relationship is, it cannot withstand the trouble of quarrels. We often say that too much will lead to mistakes.

During the quarrel, each other cannot control their emotions and speak ill of each other, which will bring rifts to their relationship.

If you talk too much, there will always be times when you get into trouble.If there are too many quarrels, there will be times when the family falls apart.

I am born between heaven and earth. It is the ultimate truth to be a person, and it doesn’t matter if I do anything else.

A famous quote from Gao Panlong's "Gao Family Instructions" in the Ming Dynasty.

Character is the most important thing in the family and in society.

A good family tradition means learning to be a human being.Parents are the mirror of their children and the first teacher of their children.

In family life, parents should set an example for their children.Don’t deceive, don’t be violent, and use your own practical actions to let your children understand the principles of being a human being.

If you store your essence in darkness, you will be bright; if you nourish your mind in quietness, you will be peaceful.

A famous quote from Ouyang Xiu’s “Shi Zi”.

Being honest on the outside but being smart on the inside is a little confused in life.

You should be a little confused when getting along with your family. Things in the world are never as clear as black or white.

Family is a place for romance. There is no hatred that cannot be resolved or obstacles that cannot be overcome.

Even if a person is foolish, he will be clear when he blames others;Even if you are smart, you will be confused if you forgive yourself.

From "Biography of Fan Chunren, Historian of the Song Dynasty".

No matter how stupid a person is, he always understands when he blames others;No matter how smart a person is, he is still confused when looking at his own problems.

Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.In family life, don’t just see other people’s shortcomings, but be considerate.

The husband understands his wife's hard work, and the wife understands her husband's pressure.Parents understand their children and respect their elders. This is the true harmony.

If you are good at your own behavior, you don’t have to be as handsome as you are;If you are talented, you will be convinced by yourself, and there is no need to say that you are so talented.

Yuan Cai of the Song Dynasty "The Legend of Yuan Family".

A person with noble character will naturally be respected by people;A person's talent is outstanding, and it is naturally convincing.

You need to have real people. There is no need to show your family life, and there is no need to brag in front of your family. True feelings are naturally revealed from the inside out.

Those who are poor and humble but must not be ignored are integrity and chastity;Those who are rich and noble but cannot be possessed are full of energy.

A sentence from Fang Xiaoru's "Family Adage" in the Ming Dynasty.

No matter how poor or rich you are, integrity and fighting spirit cannot be lost.If a family wants to prosper, family members must have fighting spirit and be positive in life.

A family that is mediocre, lifeless and has no pursuit can have a bright future.

If parents love their children, they will have a profound plan for them.

From "The Warring States Policy Touching the Dragon and Talking about Empress Dowager Zhao"

There are no parents in the world who don’t love their children, but love should be based on methods and methods.

Parents should not only see the present, but also make plans for their children in the long run.Don’t spoil your child, but instead make your child lose the ability to face the future alone.

The deepest love that parents love their children is to let go after they learn to walk.

The word "history" is called "reading and farming".The two words "prosperity" are called frugality and diligence.The word "Anjia" is called "Train and Forbearance".

The happiness of a family depends on hard work and hard work, and you will get more.

But it is not enough to be diligent but not frugal, and it is not enough to eat, drink, waste extravagance and waste.A family must prosper for a long time and have a frugal style.

When the spoon touches the edge of the pot, there will inevitably be conflicts and frictions between family members when they get along. At this time, you must rely on tolerance and tolerance.

2024-02-05 18:03
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