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Buddhist story: Heyan Aiyu: The essence of no thoughts and no worries

The essence of no thoughts and no worries

There was a joke in the past, saying that a child who went to Beijing to do research was coming back, and the mother happily went to the inn to pick up her son.I wanted to walk home side by side with my son, but my son refused to be parallel to my mother and said, "My mother, please ask first."My teaching said that you should retreat three steps and not step on the shadow of your teacher. Because your parents' shadow is no different from your teacher's shadow, you have to leave a little."

When I got home, my mother made dinner with great care, but he stared at the food without moving his chopsticks and said, "What I learned is that if I don't cut it properly, the carrots and radish are not neatly cut, so I don't eat it.""

This kind of morality that is about striving and sticking to the rules makes people despise.Obviously, morality sometimes becomes a confined zombie.

I think medicine is by no means a static thing.The dosage must be different depending on the patient's physical condition and physical condition.Poisons and strong drugs can sometimes exert their efficacy, and if the amount of good drugs is wrong, they will also become poisons and cause side effects.

Where does this ability to adapt to the situation come from? It is naturally obtained from no thoughts or worries.The most important thing is to not lose the essence of the mind that cannot be realized, this is "faith".

Memory is hateful

Zen Master Pan Gui, a famous monk in the Tokugawa era, taught: "I often hear people say that a daughter-in-law is not a thing, but my mother-in-law is rude.In fact, it is neither the daughter-in-law nor the mother-in-law's. It is all abominable memory.As long as everyone forgets their memories, their daughter-in-law should not be hated, and their mother-in-law should not be hated either."

This statement makes sense.I haven't heard of any daughter-in-law who is married when she is married, but she is always going to be against her mother-in-law when she is married. No one family wants to be a mother-in-law. Now that my daughter-in-law comes, I have to deal with her well."I'm not sensible yet, please give me some advice.""I'm used to being casual, please forgive me for everything."As long as both parties remain sincere when they meet for the first time, neither mother-in-law nor daughter-in-law will be disgusting.

What is the good thing my wife did? This time I was speechless, what is the mother-in-law who was hurt enough, and that was vicious enough, all of them were hateful.So as long as everyone forgets their memories, Guan Bao’s mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not face each other.

Wouldn't it be too pickled to let old memories be kept in my heart? Isn't it too pickled? I've been resentful about the past, but has become a dust accumulation in my heart? Today and the day before yesterday, it's understandable. What I said three years ago and what I said ten years ago, I will definitely not be able to swallow this breath, and I can't forget it even if I die! This is a sin that is too deep.

2024-02-05 18:02
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